Sam and Wendy succumb to the temptation to have sex and it ruins their relationship. Grieving the loss of the man she had hoped to marry, Wendy doesn’t understand why her friend Amy landed such a good marriage. After all, Amy and Bill also had sex while dating, so why didn’t Bill lose respect for her and dump her the way Sam did with Wendy? Why isn’t Amy suffering the same consequences as Wendy when they both made the same mistakes? Continue reading Comparing Consequences: Why do some people get away with sin?
Suppose Jesus were to suddenly materialize in front of you and say, “Quick! Sit down on the ground!” So you do because, after all, it’s Jesus. But as soon as you get settled onto the ground, Jesus says, “No, no, get up again—hurry!” So you scramble to your feet, only to have Him then say, “Quick, sit down again—hurry!” So you do, and at this point, you’re feeling quite confused. But soon that confusion is paired with exhaustion as Jesus keeps having you hop up and down for no apparent reason.
In this post, we’re going to deal with the issue of contradictory convictions. Now and then some eager-to-please soul comes to us for help because the God they’re trying so hard to please just isn’t making any sense. One minute He tells them to do something that seems rather bizarre and usually quite inconvenient. The next minute, He tells them to do just the opposite, and the end result is usually some kind of loss or embarrassment or misery. As if one round of this isn’t confusing enough, some souls find themselves getting caught in what feels like an unending cycle of God double talking them. They usually hang on for a while, dutifully obeying every order He gives, no matter how much of a hassle it is. But after a while, they get so frustrated that they start to wonder if maybe they’re missing a piece of the puzzle. And they are, because the truth is that they’re being duped by a rather nasty little game that demons love to play with serious Christians. In this post, we’ll explain how the game works, how to see through it, and how you can get yourself off of the exhausting treadmill. Continue reading The Contradictory Convictions Con: What To Do When God Can’t Seem To Make Up His Mind
You’re thinking about getting an abortion and God convicts you not to. Is He worried that you’re going to snuff out a life prematurely? No, because He hasn’t placed that power in your hands. You can’t mess up God’s plans for another soul. You can’t cheat them out of opportunities that He wanted them to have. God isn’t convicting you because He’s worried that you’re about to mess up His universe. He’s convicting you to force you to choose between obedience and rebellion. He’s after engagement. He doesn’t need your help. Continue reading Understanding Conviction: Invitations to Engage
Believing that God is mad at you when He really isn’t results in all kinds of needless angst and misery. Believing that God is very difficult to please is what drives many sincere souls to get stuck in endless confession sessions and cycles of self-persecution. And yet the reality is that every serious Christian spends a lot of time fretting over problems that don’t really exist between them and God. Why is this? Because before you can accurately assess God’s current view of you, you must first understand some basic principles about how God relates to you, and those principles are rarely discussed by the Church. Continue reading Help for Stressing Christians: Is God punishing you?
Most Christians are in a confused muddle about how God judges them. When we believe that God expects more from us than He does, we end up trapped in an endless cycle of pain, shame, and despair. We conclude that God is impossible to please, and this leads us into all sorts of harmful activities. Do you repent for the same sins over and over again? Do feel the need to injure your body or deprive your life of any joy as a means of atoning for past sins? Do you avoid a lot of subjects in your prayer life or do you avoid praying altogether because you’re afraid of God blasting you with some wrathful response? All of these are common symptoms of believing that God is impossible to please, and that belief stems from not understanding what God expects from you. To get yourself out of this cycle of misery—or to prevent yourself from getting sucked into it in the first place—you need to learn about two concepts that are critical to gaining a proper view of Divine Judgment. Those two topics are spiritual illumination, and Divine empowerment. Anyone can gain a clear idea of how God judges them if it’s explained to them properly, and as a Christian, it is vital that you understand where the lines of responsibility fall. Continue reading Understanding Divine Judgment: Illumination, Empowerment & A God Who Delights In Mercy
1. What is conviction from the Holy Spirit?
God says many things to you. If we divided all of the things He says to you into various topic categories, convictions would be one of those categories. Convictions are a form of guidance. God essentially says, “Let Me guide you onto a path that will be better for your soul.” Convictions can be corrective or educational. Continue reading Conviction Q&A
It takes a ton of practice and review to learn how to identify false conviction. False conviction (which is also known as condemnation) is when demons try to imitate God’s Voice in your mind and convince you that He is saying something to you which He really isn’t saying. Once you accept that God is the source of a lie, that lie becomes extremely powerful in your life. Believing false conviction can drain your life of hope, fill you with fear, and it might even drive you into suicidal despair. Your beliefs control the quality of your life. Demons know this, so they put enormous effort into trying to get you to put your faith in lies. If you want to stop being their helpless victim, you need to realize that you have choices and decide that you are going to start fighting back. With a little education, anyone can learn how to identify false conviction. Once you identify the lies, you can practice rejecting them and countering them with God’s positive truths. To help you in the education area, here are three easy ways to identify false conviction. Whenever you start feeling upset by something, run through these three tests in your mind and see if what you’re stressing over is from God or not. Continue reading Identifying False Conviction: Three Easy Tests