Sam and Wendy succumb to the temptation to have sex and it ruins their relationship. Grieving the loss of the man she had hoped to marry, Wendy doesn’t understand why her friend Amy landed such a good marriage. After all, Amy and Bill also had sex while dating, so why didn’t Bill lose respect for her and dump her the way Sam did with Wendy? Why isn’t Amy suffering the same consequences as Wendy when they both made the same mistakes? Continue reading
Among Christians, the folks who practice constant repentance tend to be those who shouldn’t be repenting at all. In other words, they’re overdoing it. They’re claiming responsibility for soul attitudes that they don’t even have and they are striving to appease a God who isn’t even upset with them. As harmless as this might sound, it’s actually very damaging to your relationship with God for you to be constantly assuming that He’s irritated with you when He’s not. You simply can’t develop the kind of relaxed confidence that God wants you to have when you’re always projecting anger onto Him that He’s not even feeling towards you. The purpose of this post is to help you get better at recognizing when you are in a good place with God. Continue reading
Suppose Jesus were to suddenly materialize in front of you and say, “Quick! Sit down on the ground!” So you do because, after all, it’s Jesus. But as soon as you get settled onto the ground, Jesus says, “No, no, get up again—hurry!” So you scramble to your feet, only to have Him then say, “Quick, sit down again—hurry!” So you do, and at this point, you’re feeling quite confused. But soon that confusion is paired with exhaustion as Jesus keeps having you hop up and down for no apparent reason.
In this post, we’re going to deal with the issue of contradictory convictions. Now and then some eager-to-please soul comes to us for help because the God they’re trying so hard to please just isn’t making any sense. One minute He tells them to do something that seems rather bizarre and usually quite inconvenient. The next minute, He tells them to do just the opposite, and the end result is usually some kind of loss or embarrassment or misery. As if one round of this isn’t confusing enough, some souls find themselves getting caught in what feels like an unending cycle of God double talking them. They usually hang on for a while, dutifully obeying every order He gives, no matter how much of a hassle it is. But after a while, they get so frustrated that they start to wonder if maybe they’re missing a piece of the puzzle. And they are, because the truth is that they’re being duped by a rather nasty little game that demons love to play with serious Christians. In this post, we’ll explain how the game works, how to see through it, and how you can get yourself off of the exhausting treadmill. Continue reading
TWO WAYS TO JUDGE
God judges you by your soul’s response to Him. Once God establishes a relationship with you, you constantly make choices about how you will treat Him in that relationship, and those choices are what determine whether God is pleased or displeased with you.
Humans judge you by how you behave—especially by how you behave towards other humans. Humans have strong opinions about how you ought to treat them, and if you don’t meet their expectations, then they dislike you. Continue reading
From the time of Moses to the death of Christ, Yahweh’s Old Covenant was in effect—a Covenant which the religion of Judaism claims to be based on, although in practice, modern day Judaism is a carnal mess. During the days of the Old Covenant, there were many special rules about how sin was to be handled, and all Christians should have a basic understanding of what some of those rules were. But here’s the problem: modern day Christian leaders are doing an abysmal job of educating people about how the Old Covenant worked. The information we’re about to present to you is information that most of you will never hear taught in any church. The Old Testament sacrificial system is one of those topics that Christian teachers avoid like a plague. Why? Well, most of them don’t understand how it works because they were never taught, and they just don’t care. Among the few who do understand how the sacrificial system worked, you’ll be hard-pressed to find anyone who wants you to make the connections we’re going to spell out for you in this post. Why? Because keeping you in the dark about the sacrificial system is extremely profitable for Christian teachers. Don’t believe it? When’s the last time you fell for the fat lie that God commands Christians to tithe? When’s the last time you actually paid some inflated ego money to share his knowledge with you because you were so impressed with the fact that he knew the Bible better than you did? As long as you think your spiritual leaders have some huge advantage over you, you’ll adore them, obey them, pay them, and follow them. If you think that kind of thing isn’t addictive, you need to think again (see Shady Shepherd Tactics: Gaining Rank). Continue reading